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The Coloniality Chronicles – Part One

β€œSex education should feel like an exhilarating adventure rather than a boring lecture… We may be just beginning our education or filling the gaps at

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Omniphobia, noun, fear of everything

Here in England, we are beginning our slow return to how things were in the before times. And I’m scared. Not of the virus. But

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On writing realistic sex scenes

I’ve been writing erotica for 14 years, which is, in fact, longer than the length of time I’ve been having partnered sex. When I was

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Emotional wounds and literary clout

Yesterday, I turned 32. There’s nothing special about the age itself, but this year my birthday is significant, as I’m still celebrating my recent signing

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My new approach to dating

From July to October, while the COVID-19 restrictions had been relaxed in London, I was involved, to varying degrees, with seven different men. The dynamics

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How I make my living

Each year, the Office of National Statistics releases data on pay and earnings. The most recent statistics report,Β β€˜Ethnicity pay gaps: 2019’, published on 12 October

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British Vogue and other writings

When I was 16, I wrote my first personal essay about sexuality and desire. I posted it onto my MySpace blog and spent the next

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On sexual liberation and racial justice

Me, writing for ellaOne: β€œI write about sexuality because I’m passionate about championing pleasure. Sex positivity has defined my life and choices, but it often